'Group email gone wrong': Scorned ex-girlfriend blasted on a group email chain, replies all to reveal everyone's biggest secrets

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Remy Millisky • Writer and Editor
May 26, 2024 9:00 AM EDT

Go big or go home, as they say. Sometimes in life, you've got to aim high, swing for the stars, and try to have it all. No one knows that better than u/nosugarcoatings. You wouldn't want to get on her bad side, as you can check out in this absolutely bananas story of petty revenge. 

This woman shared that she was dating a guy who seemed great at first, but the further they got into their relationship, the more she realized he was lying to her and humiliating her. In hindsight, it's easy to wonder why that person didn't leave the relationship sooner. Sometimes, as she explains, it just takes a while to see all of the red flags that have been waving the whole time. When you're wearing the rose-colored glasses of the honeymoon phase, every red flag just looks like a flag. 

Though this woman shared her story to the petty revenge subreddit, commenters advised her that it was more appropriate for the pro revenge or nuclear revenge subs. She really did have a scorched-earth response to this, but she was so right for that. You can check out the entire story below! 

Next up, the owner of this crystal shop was in for a big surprise when she got the bill from a customs worker she'd forced to help her. 

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    Is this not fun anymore? Group email gone wrong...
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    Many years ago I (female) was dating someone (male) that hurt me, humiliated me and didn't stop to think how it could backfire on him.
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    He pursued me, I liked him, we hit it off. Spent lots of time together, dinners, gong out, many nights at his place, etc. We were dating... and everything seemed great. Well, some time into dating he hurt me...I discovered lies, secrets, other women, he was also really mean and hurtful to me when I found this out, etc. I
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    realized it was all lies and games to him. I was sincerely heartbroken and disappointed in him. As my last communication to him, I decided to email him instead of speaking to him over the phone. I went through the disappointment I had in him, wasting my time and emotions, etc. My closure with him.
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    Well, I start getting notices in my email account and at first I thought they were spam not bothering to see what the emails were in regards to. I finally take a look to see what is going on and my heart drops and I gasp. He had forwarded my email to all of his friends. A group of male and female friends, couples, singles...lifetime group of friends! Best of friends!
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    They're going back and forth laughing at me, mocking me, calling me pathetic, saying I l deserved the pain for being stupid trusting him.. it just went on and on and I was included in all the replies..... it was horrible. I cried for a minute until I realized something. I realized i had in
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    possession the red flags I had ignored. It hit me at that moment all the things he had said about his group of friends... all the stories I had heard.... all the secrets I knew!
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    That's right, I gathered myself, poured a nice drink, laughed and said.. it's on! Lol!! I replied to the group email saying... I'm glad you guys have found my hurt entertaining, my personal life not respected, your friends behaviour acceptable. My expressing myself to him in how things ended is not shameful, what he
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    did with my email and me is shameful. But since you guys enjoy this type of entertainment...I figured why not join in on the fun!!! Lol!! I went through the whole list of friends... So and so... you're not included in any activities and invites because they think your wife emasculated you and she
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    has cut your off and no one respects you anymore. Also to his wife.. no one likes you.. they think you're stuck up and laugh at you because that rock you flaunt is glass!! Not a real diamond or any other real stone. Lol!
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    For the one that says I deserve to be treated this way and hurt.. aren't you the one that just had her violent, abusive boyfriend destroy your whole apartment for the what time in a row already? Didn't you go crying to your friends about it? I guess you must have deserved it as well huh? And just so you know... everyone thinks you're an idiot too for being with the guy that treated you that way!! Welcome to the club! Lol!!
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    I went through the list and revealed everything.. every secret, everything they thought and said about each other, etc. Everything they didn't know and didn't want others to know...lol!!
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    I ended it with.. wow, this was fun!! Lol! I'm glad we did this! I feel so much better now! Lol! And if anyone is hurt, upset, feels. violated, humiliated, angry... don't bother emailing me... talk to your little friend that thought this was a great idea. And also remember... you guys thought it was a great idea and fun as well! Lol!
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    The silence after that was the sweetest sound ever! Lol!! Months after that... he messaged me, tried apologizing, told me all his friends dropped him, he had nowhere to stay and asked if he could sleep on my couch...lol!! Nope...lol!
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    He tried reaching out a few times throughout the years... trying to make amends...explaining that he lost everyone after that... that group of lifelong friends was done. He had his own place, working, etc but he was alone.
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    Edit: That whole group disintegrated instantly from what he said... it was chaos..relationships ended... no one remained friends after that. The only thing they were in agreement with was that they hated him...lol!! When this happened, I didn't even stop to think of what the outcome would be. The only thing on my mind was giving them a taste of feeling humiliated, violated, mocked...
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    my revenge intention was simply to make them feel some of what I felt. Edit: Reminder, this happened many years ago, not recently. I didn't think it had to be recent or post a pic of the email to prove its true. I didn't think this story was that big of a deal to begin with as far as public interest would go. I thought it was a crazy story to share for a the entertainment of a few that might
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    cume across it. I Assumed my story would not be that different or more fascinating than any other revenge story. ALSO....a few people are angry at my use of LOL...smh! First off all, it's reddit, my casual writing... not (professional or academic) is like this. If you knew me in person, you would understand me, my personality and humor and attitude towards things... I'm always laughing over things...I
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    laugh over thinking something is funny, disbelief, I'm being sarcastic, talking etc. I try not to write my casual messages to others very seriously because they're meant to not come across that way and i want others to laugh and not feel like they're reading some serious novela. Believe it or not, this is nowhere near one of the most dramatic things hat has happened to me.
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    My life has been wild since birth and if you guys think this story is crazy or fake... then. I'm screwed sharing the rest of my life because it only gets crazier. My family nick names for me are...La Mala Suerte (The bad luck), Mayhem, Final Destination.... I'm a Chicana and for those that know... the amount of times I've had eggs rubbed on me to remove the bad luck and bad energy is hilarious!! The amount
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    of times I've been blessed.. prayed on, etc. I've been on my own since I was 16, the things I've been through and seen can make a grown man cry...I laugh at laughing has got me through some crazy in life. I would rather laugh than cry and show the world I'm laughing at .. and I would rather show you with my words that I'm laughing because I am... and if that upsets you guys, or you think it makes
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    me look "psychotic ".. then so be it... just gives one more thing for me to LOL at!! Not that serious people! EDIT: As much as i laugh about it... and I do love to laugh.... this was a hard story to share. because it was painful, it was humiliating, it was ugly to see the things being said, I don't want to go into specific details... but ugly is an understatement. It was like being on the floor surrounded by
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    bullies laughing at you while you cry wondering why you're being attacked feeling so vulnerable. So if my attitude seems like it wasn't that bad or serious... it was that bad. But if my laughter at the the reactions, comments, praises make it seem like this can't be real. Like this story is fake... it sadly is very real. And I'm sure there are many people out there that have experienced something like this. And if
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    anything, I hope that this gives a little smile or hope or motivation to anyone that has been mistreated, humiliated or bullied. It's scary to stand up to others and I do it all the time but there was a time in my life I didn't and this was a turning point for me. Don't think that a good woman that cared for you will not take you down....lol!!
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    BlueFireK9 Damm that's Literally destroyed his entire social life & relationshisp in a single emailing session. Good on you
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    SordoCrabs I think this qualifies for an upgrade to Pro or Nuclear Revenge.
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    PreRaphPrincess Utterly baffling that a) people exist who can find another person's pain amusing and b) it never occurs to those people that the nasty little psychos whose behaviour they find so entertaining, might also be just as nasty to them. Seriously, what goes through these people's heads?!
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    ze11ez When you say "i gathered myself a drink" immediately knew this was the "uh-oh, we up" part of the movie. I knew whatever you had in mind was gonna be grand.....LOL
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    Talmaska That's some scorched earth type, there.
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